Episode 16: David Cornthwaite

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Name: David Cornthwaite Dave is an adventurer... who really, truly pushes the boundaries, his boundaries and adventure's. He’s the founder of Say Yes More and Expedition 1000

 

. Check out his wikipedia page to have a slightly more thorough skimming of his achievements because I could type all day and barely scratch the surface.

Habit of Thought:

Everything has a positive or a negative side and it’s your choice.

Always go for things. Even if they’re scary. Habit of Action:

Follow my feet.

Greatest area of strength: 

Walk the walk.

Nik’s Take: I think that Dave's ability to launch himself at life and to make it work as he goes is astounding.

Training for this area:

“I have a purpose to everything I do, even if it’s just ‘I’m getting to there’”.

Have a purpose to what you’re doing that’s larger than your fears.

Book:

Losing my virginity - Richard Branson

Web resource:

TED

Contact:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Cornthwaite

DaveCornthwaite.com

Twitter @davecorn

Instagram Dave Corn

 

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Episode 15: Ben Katzaman

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Name: Ben KatzamanName: Ben Katzaman

Ben was introduced to me as “the bracelet guy” which doesn’t even scratch the surface of who he is. He’s a brilliant man and I enjoy just watcName: Ben Katzaman

Ben was introduced to me as “the bracelet guy” which doesn’t even scratch the surface of who he is. He’s a brilliant man and I enjoy just watching him think.

Habit of Thought: Avoid negativity. Put a positive spin on things. With yourself and with others.

Habit of Action: Hold the space so that I can be creative. Have the mundane handled.

Greatest area of strength: Get people on your side, on your team.

Training for this area: Get rid of the mindset of “what can I get?” Focus on “how can I help this person out or to help them have a better day.” Be willing to work for Karma. Books: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Web resource: Trendhunter.com

Other references: Ben talks about Hubud at one point. It’s the largest co-working space in Ubud. Check it out!

Contact: Ben@wandererbracelets.com Rayvr.com BenKatzaman.com hing him think.

Habit of Thought: Avoid negativity. Put a positive spin on things. With yourself and with others.

Habit of Action: Hold the space so that I can be creative. Have the mundane handled.

Greatest area of strength: Get people on your side, on your team.

Training for this area: Get rid of the mindset of “what can I get?” Focus on “how can I help this person out or to help them have a better day.” Be willing to work for Karma. Books: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Web resource: Trendhunter.com

Other references: Ben talks about Hubud at one point. It’s the largest co-working space in Ubud. Check it out!

Contact: Ben@wandererbracelets.com Rayvr.com BenKatzaman.com

Ben was introduced to me as “the bracelet guy” which doesn’t even scratch the surface of who he is. He’s a brilliant man and I enjoy just watching him think.

Habit of Thought: Avoid negativity. Put a positive spin on things. With yourself and with others.

Habit of Action: Hold the space so that I can be creative. Have the mundane handled.

Greatest area of strength: Get people on your side, on your team.

Training for this area: Get rid of the mindset of “what can I get?” Focus on “how can I help this person out or to help them have a better day.” Be willing to work for Karma. Books: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie Name: Ben Katzaman

Ben was introduced to me as “the bracelet guy” which doesn’t even scratch the surface of who he is. He’s a brilliant man and I enjoy just watching him think.

Habit of Thought: Avoid negativity. Put a positive spin on things. With yourself and with others.

Habit of Action: Hold the space so that I can be creative. Have the mundane handled.

Greatest area of strength: Get people on your side, on your team.

Training for this area: Get rid of the mindset of “what can I get?” Focus on “how can I help this person out or to help them have a better day.” Be willing to work for Karma. Books: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Web resourceTrendhunter.com

Other references: Ben talks about Hubud at one point. It’s the largest co-working space in Ubud. Check it out!

Contact: Ben@wandererbracelets.com Rayvr.com BenKatzaman.c Web resource: Trendhunter.com

Other references: Ben talks about Hubud at one point. It’s the largest co-working space in Ubud. Check it out!

Contact: Ben@wandererbracelets.com Rayvr.com BenKatzaman.com

Episode 13: Daniel Braha

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Daniel Braha Daniel is a designer, artist and dare I say, Life Athlete who is wandering the world moving from one awesome adventure and experience to another. Daniel was introduced to me by a mutual friend who thinks that Daniel serves as a litmus test for people. If they don’t like Daniel, he doesn’t see any point in knowing them as there’s clearly something off.

 

Habit of Thought:

Have fun! Do what your mom tells you.

Habit of Action:

Move my body in some way daily

Greatest area of strength: 

Listening and being present to the present moment.

Training for this area:

Actively listen the goodness out of people.

Book:

The Prophet - Kahlil Gibron

Web resource:

Squarespace

Contact:

Daniel Braha

http://www.sosmedia.org

http://danielbrahalovesyou.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/sosmedia

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielbraha

Episode 12: Sara Andrews

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Sara Andrews is the co founder and C.E.O. of Bumbleroot foods. Sara founded Bumbleroot to provide delicious, unique, and nutritious food products to consumers in the U.S. and to create income opportunities for the farmers and harvesters who supply the ingredients. Habit of Thought:

-Think BIG. Don’t worry about the details and get back into the visioning mode.

-Gratitude. Remember how lucky you are!

Habit of Action:

Engage with life, magical things will happen.

Greatest area of strength: 

Moms take: A dreamer

Sara’s take: A vision of how to make things better and an ability to make it happen.

Training for this area:

Play. Engage with something and take on a new skill to get yourself out of your head.

Books:

Fire starter sessions -

the Desire Map

The Artist's Way - Julia Cameron

Web resource:

http://www.richroll.com

Contact:

http://bumblerootfoods.com

Instagram: @sarabumble

Twitter: @sarabumble

Episode 11: Kai Paul

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[fusion_text]Kai Paul Is one of the founders of Indo Sole, an apparel company that repurposes old car tires to be the soles of some really, really, nice shoes.

Habit of Thought:

Thankfulness

Habit of Action:

Make mornings meaningful and enjoyable.

Greatest Area Of Strength:

I try

Training for this area:

Find and area that you’re comfortable with and make it work.

Book:

The Purple Cow - Seth Godin

Web Resource:

Tim Ferriss

Contact:

Indosole.com

Kai@indosole.com

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Episode 10: Cody Hunter

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[fusion_text]Cody was literally the face of fitness in South Korea while I was living there as he was the inspiration for the logo of the largest fitness chains in the country. Every time I went to a fitness related event I’d run into him and every time  I was struck by his positive energy, enthusiasm and his love of people. Cody joined me from his office in Seoul South Korea.

Habit of Thought:

Always letting go and adapting. Putting the negative behind you and then focus on the positive.

Habit of Action:

Getting up extremely early and never having to rush. Make sure that you have plenty of time. Don’t put yourself under undue pressure.

Greatest Strength:

Passions for what I do.

Nik’s take on Cody’s strength: Joy in the tough times.

How to train this area:

Try to experience many different things, get uncomfortable, really feel it out and then run with it.

Training for Nik’s take: 

Keep things simple and don’t stress. Find the fun side.

Book:

Who Moved my Cheese? - Spencer Johnson, M.D.

Nik suggested: “The Power of Full Engagement”

Web Resource:

Simon Sinek

Contact:

huntercoachinglab@gmail.com

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Episode 8 : Burhaan Pattel

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Burhaan Pattel is a digital nomad who is fairly new on his journey. He has that light in his eye that is common to people who are on the right path. We spoke at the Onion Collective in Ubud Bali. 

Habit of Thought:

Choosing to live the dream and not just dreaming the dream.

Habit of Action:

Taking action to make dreams real.

 

Books:

You Can Heal Your Life - Louise Hay

The 4 Hour Work Week - Tim Ferris 

Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill

How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - Dale Carnegie

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

CRUSH IT! - Gary Vaynerchuk

Web resource:

nomadlist.io

 

Contact:

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Episode 7: Vince Nance

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[fusion_text]Writer, personal trainer, life coach, self-defense and jiu-jitsu instructor, and former cagefighter turned yoga enthusiast. His personality and presence are bigger than he is and those who have met him don't soon forget. Years ago, he was introduced to me by a mutual friend who said: "This is Vince, he does everything well".

Habit of Thought:

Gratitude. Focus on the positive. You can frame things however you want so frame things in a way that work for you. Banish self-pity.

Habit of Action:

“The trick is, you gotta do it.” Rapid transition period from thought to action.

Book:

Reality Architecture 

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships - Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha

Web Resource:

TED On being Wrong: Kathryn Schulz

Link:

Reality Architecture 

Contact:

FaceBook: Vince Nance

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Episode 6: Les Leventhal

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[fusion_text]I originally went to Les' Vinyasa flow class because Derek Loudermilk said Les was one of the best men he knew. With an introduction like that, from a person like that, I HAD to go.

What I found was man who seems to have been smoothed out by the roughness of life. He had an ability to make me (in the back row of the class) feel like I was totally okay as I was and that I couild do anything.

I know that this is what yoga teachers are supposed to do but I’m a tough person to impress in this way and boy did Les ever impress.

Habit of Thought:

I have to be willing to walk the talk.

Habit of Action:

Walk the talk myself first.

Greatest area of strength: :

Very creative sequencer. Brutally honest able to hold a sacred, safe space. (Nik’s take: To my eyes, Les has given himself the permission to get over his colourful past and is moving forward cleanly.)

Training for this area:

Forgiveness.

Book:

Two Lifestyles, One Lifetime: An Inspiring Journey From Rock-Bottom Hopelessness to Wildly Extravagant Possibility  - Les Leventhal

Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing - Caroline Myss

Web Resource:

Yoga Journal

David Wolfe

Anna Forest

Link:

YogawithLes.com

Contact:

yogawithles.com Instagram - yogawithles Twitter - yogawithless

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Episode 5: Louise Taylor

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[fusion_text] Louise Taylor specializes in assisting women to find the clarity and confidence to leave their corporate jobs to follow their passion and make money as a coach or consultant. We met at Hubud in Ubud, Bali.

Habit of Thought:

Focus on what the bigger purpose is. How can I help people?

Habit of Action:

Prioritize a meditation practice to ground and then take action.

Book:

Louise’s e-Book The Power of Vulnerability - Brené Brown

Web Resource:

Gina Devee

Ali Brown

Tim Ferris

http://www.entrepreneur.com

 

Link:

http://www.louisetaylorcoaching.com

Contact:

www.facebook.com/louisetaylorcoaching

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Episode 4: Kristian Bruun

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Habit of Thought:

“Be prepared”

Habit of Action:

“Do the work”

Book:

“OH, COME ON MAN!  THERE’S SO MANY!”

Medicine Walk - Richard Wagamese

“One of the most beautiful, poingant books I’ve ever read. Just stunningly told”

Web Resource:

Wikipedia

Link:

How to plan an orgy in a small town

Contact:

Twitter: @thebruun Instagram:  Bonnycastle

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Episode 3: Robin Conelley

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[fusion_text]Among other things, Robin is the founder of Ninja Camp Bali. She welcomed me in for the day at Ninja camp and sat down with me to share her story.

Habit of Thought:

Embrace change

Habit of Action:

Take time for yourself (don’t just fight through)

Greatest Area of Strength:

Focus

Training For This Area:

Be present. Keep bringing your focus back to where you are.

Book:

Moby Dick - Herman Melville

The Unbearable Lightness of Being - Milan Kundera

If You Meet the Buddha on the Road, Kill Him: The Pilgrimage Of Psychotherapy Patients

Contact:

Contact@ninjacampbali.com

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Episode 2: Derek Loudermilk

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[fusion_text]Derek is the host of the Art of Adventure Podcast and he gives us a look into the Art and Adventure of his own journey.

Habit of Thought:

Observe and emulate.

Habit of Action:

Always have a physical component to learning.

Book:

Mindset - Carol Dweck Power Connecter - Julie Robenette The Charisma Myth - Olivia Fox Cabane 

Web Resource:

Tim Ferris Chris Guillebeau Ryan Holliday

Link:

The art of adventure podcast

Contact:

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Phase 1 Day8: You are... where? Relationships. 

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Before we move on to phase two and look at what kind of relationships you want in your life, it’s time to take another look at yourself. 

What you have is usually the product of who you are.  If, as Jim Rohn says, you are the average of the 5 people closest to you... they are also a reflection of you. 

If you’re surrounded by awesome, life affirming people who light you up and are making a difference in the world... keep on, keepin’ on. 

If you’re somewhere shy of that, you might have some work to do. 


Relationships Phase 1 Day 7: What are you a clearing for?

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We’ve looked generally at the state of your relationships so far and now we’re going to look at.... you.

...or, more accurately, you are going to look at you. 

It’s surprising how often people seem to be surprised when it’s pointed out that the common factor in all of their relationships is them. You are the common factor in all of your relationships... even the non-existent ones. 

What kind of relationships are you prepared to have? One clue, it’s the kind you currently have. 


We get what we’re a clearing for. That might sound metaphysical and squishy but ultimately it’s true. 

We can’t lift weight that we’re not strong enough to lift, and we can’t have relationships that we’re not prepared or willing to have. 

This is a bit of a touchy subject for those in bad relationships. This kind of talk can land as blame, but it’s not. 

What we’re talking about is claiming responsibility for the relationships in your life. Again, this is not blame, this is a place of power.

Once you embrace your responsibility for how you are socially and what you have in terms of relationships, you can do something about it. 

If you are where you want to be, you can keep doing what you’re doing and know that you’re driving forward the life you want. 

If you’re not where you want to be, relationship-wise then now’s a chance to figure out why. 

So, what kind of relationships ARE you prepared to have? What are you open to? What are you closed to? What terrifies you? What fulfills you? What inspires you? What do you want but think you can’t have? What do you settle for? 

What kind of relationships are you a clearing for?

 Challenge: 

Ask yourself what kind of relationships you’re open to and what kind of relationships you’re a clearing for in the various kinds of relationship groups you’ve identified in your life. 

Phase 1 Day 4,5,6: What's working, what's not and what's success anyway?

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We’re going to be merging a few parts for this post. These parts go together and doing one without the other is a little ... complicated. Which to choose first and how to do one without the other just seemed like a pointless exercise and so, we’re going to look at them together. 


Part A: Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are working? 

Part A I: Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are NOT working?

Part A II: How do you measure success in your relationships? 

Relationships can be tricky and can be seemingly working one day and not the next. Still we tend to be able to tell the difference when we stop and ask ourselves these questions directly. 

You can go into this as in-depth as you you’d like. Some relationships might simply not be working as well as you’d like. 

If something is “not working”, that doesn’t mean that it’s wrong, broken forever or in need of being ejected. All it means is that it doesn’t fit your current standards. 

When looking at how you measure what a working, successful, relationship is to you,  you will get a sense of what you want in each relationship or group. If you’re not where you want to be... well that’s coming.

Challenge:

Answer the following questions: 

-Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are working?

-Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are NOT working?

-How do you measure success in your relationships? 

Relationships Phase  1 Day 3- Inner Circle

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You’ve looked at the relationships you have and the ones you’d like to have. The next step is to rank them a little. Let’s identify the most important ones to you. You can look at the top groups, the top people inside of those groups. We’re looking for the people with whom you most definitely want to maintain and cultivate a relationship. 

These are the people who can help grow you and who you can help to grow. 


This does not mean that the people not on the short list are unimportant. It’s important to identify the people that matter the most though and to know where your time and energy must first be focussed. 

It’s eye opening to see that we sometimes don’t spend the time on the people we say are important that would verify that they are indeed so.  I believe that while the success of  our relationships are a function of how much we “relate”, it’s also important for us to put energy in various forms into those we say are important to us. 

This goes double for those categories that are not currently peopled. If we want to have a mastermind group full of dynamic, driven and awesome people... What’re you waiting for? 

There are factors that limit us in relationships, things in us that might be sabotaging what we say that we want. We’ll look at some of that later but right now, look at who and what is most important to you. 

Challenge: 

-Identify the top relationship areas and the top people in your life.