Episode 10: Cody Hunter

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[fusion_text]Cody was literally the face of fitness in South Korea while I was living there as he was the inspiration for the logo of the largest fitness chains in the country. Every time I went to a fitness related event I’d run into him and every time  I was struck by his positive energy, enthusiasm and his love of people. Cody joined me from his office in Seoul South Korea.

Habit of Thought:

Always letting go and adapting. Putting the negative behind you and then focus on the positive.

Habit of Action:

Getting up extremely early and never having to rush. Make sure that you have plenty of time. Don’t put yourself under undue pressure.

Greatest Strength:

Passions for what I do.

Nik’s take on Cody’s strength: Joy in the tough times.

How to train this area:

Try to experience many different things, get uncomfortable, really feel it out and then run with it.

Training for Nik’s take: 

Keep things simple and don’t stress. Find the fun side.

Book:

Who Moved my Cheese? - Spencer Johnson, M.D.

Nik suggested: “The Power of Full Engagement”

Web Resource:

Simon Sinek

Contact:

huntercoachinglab@gmail.com

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Episode 8 : Burhaan Pattel

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Burhaan Pattel is a digital nomad who is fairly new on his journey. He has that light in his eye that is common to people who are on the right path. We spoke at the Onion Collective in Ubud Bali. 

Habit of Thought:

Choosing to live the dream and not just dreaming the dream.

Habit of Action:

Taking action to make dreams real.

 

Books:

You Can Heal Your Life - Louise Hay

The 4 Hour Work Week - Tim Ferris 

Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill

How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - Dale Carnegie

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

CRUSH IT! - Gary Vaynerchuk

Web resource:

nomadlist.io

 

Contact:

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Episode 7: Vince Nance

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[fusion_text]Writer, personal trainer, life coach, self-defense and jiu-jitsu instructor, and former cagefighter turned yoga enthusiast. His personality and presence are bigger than he is and those who have met him don't soon forget. Years ago, he was introduced to me by a mutual friend who said: "This is Vince, he does everything well".

Habit of Thought:

Gratitude. Focus on the positive. You can frame things however you want so frame things in a way that work for you. Banish self-pity.

Habit of Action:

“The trick is, you gotta do it.” Rapid transition period from thought to action.

Book:

Reality Architecture 

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships - Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha

Web Resource:

TED On being Wrong: Kathryn Schulz

Link:

Reality Architecture 

Contact:

FaceBook: Vince Nance

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Episode 6: Les Leventhal

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[fusion_text]I originally went to Les' Vinyasa flow class because Derek Loudermilk said Les was one of the best men he knew. With an introduction like that, from a person like that, I HAD to go.

What I found was man who seems to have been smoothed out by the roughness of life. He had an ability to make me (in the back row of the class) feel like I was totally okay as I was and that I couild do anything.

I know that this is what yoga teachers are supposed to do but I’m a tough person to impress in this way and boy did Les ever impress.

Habit of Thought:

I have to be willing to walk the talk.

Habit of Action:

Walk the talk myself first.

Greatest area of strength: :

Very creative sequencer. Brutally honest able to hold a sacred, safe space. (Nik’s take: To my eyes, Les has given himself the permission to get over his colourful past and is moving forward cleanly.)

Training for this area:

Forgiveness.

Book:

Two Lifestyles, One Lifetime: An Inspiring Journey From Rock-Bottom Hopelessness to Wildly Extravagant Possibility  - Les Leventhal

Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing - Caroline Myss

Web Resource:

Yoga Journal

David Wolfe

Anna Forest

Link:

YogawithLes.com

Contact:

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Episode 5: Louise Taylor

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[fusion_text] Louise Taylor specializes in assisting women to find the clarity and confidence to leave their corporate jobs to follow their passion and make money as a coach or consultant. We met at Hubud in Ubud, Bali.

Habit of Thought:

Focus on what the bigger purpose is. How can I help people?

Habit of Action:

Prioritize a meditation practice to ground and then take action.

Book:

Louise’s e-Book The Power of Vulnerability - Brené Brown

Web Resource:

Gina Devee

Ali Brown

Tim Ferris

http://www.entrepreneur.com

 

Link:

http://www.louisetaylorcoaching.com

Contact:

www.facebook.com/louisetaylorcoaching

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Episode 4: Kristian Bruun

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[fusion_text]Kristian Bruun might best be known as Constable Slugger Jackson on the Murdoch Mysteries and Donnie Hendrix on BBC America’s Orphan Black. He’s also the frontman for the band “Franklin’s Fault” and an old friend from University. He’s one of the most caring, genuine and entertaining people I’ve met. In this episode, Kristian shares about his process and the experience of being an actor and a Life Athlete.

Habit of Thought:

“Be prepared”

Habit of Action:

“Do the work”

Book:

“OH, COME ON MAN!  THERE’S SO MANY!”

Medicine Walk - Richard Wagamese

“One of the most beautiful, poingant books I’ve ever read. Just stunningly told”

Web Resource:

Wikipedia

Link:

How to plan an orgy in a small town

Contact:

Twitter: @thebruun Instagram:  Bonnycastle

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Episode 3: Robin Conelley

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[fusion_text]Among other things, Robin is the founder of Ninja Camp Bali. She welcomed me in for the day at Ninja camp and sat down with me to share her story.

Habit of Thought:

Embrace change

Habit of Action:

Take time for yourself (don’t just fight through)

Greatest Area of Strength:

Focus

Training For This Area:

Be present. Keep bringing your focus back to where you are.

Book:

Moby Dick - Herman Melville

The Unbearable Lightness of Being - Milan Kundera

If You Meet the Buddha on the Road, Kill Him: The Pilgrimage Of Psychotherapy Patients

Contact:

Contact@ninjacampbali.com

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Episode 2: Derek Loudermilk

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[fusion_text]Derek is the host of the Art of Adventure Podcast and he gives us a look into the Art and Adventure of his own journey.

Habit of Thought:

Observe and emulate.

Habit of Action:

Always have a physical component to learning.

Book:

Mindset - Carol Dweck Power Connecter - Julie Robenette The Charisma Myth - Olivia Fox Cabane 

Web Resource:

Tim Ferris Chris Guillebeau Ryan Holliday

Link:

The art of adventure podcast

Contact:

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Phase 1 Day8: You are... where? Relationships. 

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Before we move on to phase two and look at what kind of relationships you want in your life, it’s time to take another look at yourself. 

What you have is usually the product of who you are.  If, as Jim Rohn says, you are the average of the 5 people closest to you... they are also a reflection of you. 

If you’re surrounded by awesome, life affirming people who light you up and are making a difference in the world... keep on, keepin’ on. 

If you’re somewhere shy of that, you might have some work to do. 


Relationships Phase 1 Day 7: What are you a clearing for?

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We’ve looked generally at the state of your relationships so far and now we’re going to look at.... you.

...or, more accurately, you are going to look at you. 

It’s surprising how often people seem to be surprised when it’s pointed out that the common factor in all of their relationships is them. You are the common factor in all of your relationships... even the non-existent ones. 

What kind of relationships are you prepared to have? One clue, it’s the kind you currently have. 


We get what we’re a clearing for. That might sound metaphysical and squishy but ultimately it’s true. 

We can’t lift weight that we’re not strong enough to lift, and we can’t have relationships that we’re not prepared or willing to have. 

This is a bit of a touchy subject for those in bad relationships. This kind of talk can land as blame, but it’s not. 

What we’re talking about is claiming responsibility for the relationships in your life. Again, this is not blame, this is a place of power.

Once you embrace your responsibility for how you are socially and what you have in terms of relationships, you can do something about it. 

If you are where you want to be, you can keep doing what you’re doing and know that you’re driving forward the life you want. 

If you’re not where you want to be, relationship-wise then now’s a chance to figure out why. 

So, what kind of relationships ARE you prepared to have? What are you open to? What are you closed to? What terrifies you? What fulfills you? What inspires you? What do you want but think you can’t have? What do you settle for? 

What kind of relationships are you a clearing for?

 Challenge: 

Ask yourself what kind of relationships you’re open to and what kind of relationships you’re a clearing for in the various kinds of relationship groups you’ve identified in your life. 

Phase 1 Day 4,5,6: What's working, what's not and what's success anyway?

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We’re going to be merging a few parts for this post. These parts go together and doing one without the other is a little ... complicated. Which to choose first and how to do one without the other just seemed like a pointless exercise and so, we’re going to look at them together. 


Part A: Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are working? 

Part A I: Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are NOT working?

Part A II: How do you measure success in your relationships? 

Relationships can be tricky and can be seemingly working one day and not the next. Still we tend to be able to tell the difference when we stop and ask ourselves these questions directly. 

You can go into this as in-depth as you you’d like. Some relationships might simply not be working as well as you’d like. 

If something is “not working”, that doesn’t mean that it’s wrong, broken forever or in need of being ejected. All it means is that it doesn’t fit your current standards. 

When looking at how you measure what a working, successful, relationship is to you,  you will get a sense of what you want in each relationship or group. If you’re not where you want to be... well that’s coming.

Challenge:

Answer the following questions: 

-Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are working?

-Which of your relationships, and relationship groupings, are NOT working?

-How do you measure success in your relationships? 

Relationships Phase  1 Day 3- Inner Circle

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You’ve looked at the relationships you have and the ones you’d like to have. The next step is to rank them a little. Let’s identify the most important ones to you. You can look at the top groups, the top people inside of those groups. We’re looking for the people with whom you most definitely want to maintain and cultivate a relationship. 

These are the people who can help grow you and who you can help to grow. 


This does not mean that the people not on the short list are unimportant. It’s important to identify the people that matter the most though and to know where your time and energy must first be focussed. 

It’s eye opening to see that we sometimes don’t spend the time on the people we say are important that would verify that they are indeed so.  I believe that while the success of  our relationships are a function of how much we “relate”, it’s also important for us to put energy in various forms into those we say are important to us. 

This goes double for those categories that are not currently peopled. If we want to have a mastermind group full of dynamic, driven and awesome people... What’re you waiting for? 

There are factors that limit us in relationships, things in us that might be sabotaging what we say that we want. We’ll look at some of that later but right now, look at who and what is most important to you. 

Challenge: 

-Identify the top relationship areas and the top people in your life. 

Relationships Phase 1 Day 2: What kind of relationships do you have? 

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As with anything we do at Life Athletics, all movement starts with looking at where we are currently. Knowing our starting point impacts our next step and the more we can just accept that what is, is... the more powerfully we can transform. 

As far as relationships go, we’re going to start simply... I’m asking these questions: 


-“What kind of relationships do you have now?” 

and

-”What kind of relationships do you wish you had that you don’t have currently”

What I mean is not related to the quality (ie. good or bad) but rather the type (Friends, close friends, Family, romantic, Siblings... etc.).

How you group your interpersonal relationships in your mind is unique to you and says a lot about how you sort people. 

We may have rules for one group (ie. family or friends) that we don’t have for another (ie. local shopkeeper or a co-worker on another floor) and there are some groups we may be avoiding. 

Do you have lots of acquaintances but no close friends? Do you avoid intimacy? Do you  avoid any interactions that aren’t intimate?

Do you only spend time with people who are better than you at the things you want to do? Do you avoid those people? 

Do you avoid all people? 

Do you have a mastermind group? 

Do you have a team? 

Who are you as a social being? 

Marking down the groups that exist as you see them allows you to get a glimpse into how you manage yourself socially.  Again, we’ll be looking at which are working and which aren’t later. 

For now look at what exists and what doesn’t relationship wise for you. Where are you now? 

Challenge:

Answer these questions: 

-“What kind of relationships do you have now?” 

and

-”What kind of relationships do you wish you had that you don’t have currently”

Relationships Phase 1 Day 1: Being with other human beings. 

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This month we’ll be looking at relationships. 

Yes... February, the month with the holiday that makes lots of people stressed out about their romantic relationships... or their lack of one. 

We’re not just looking at romantic relationships however. That’s just one part of this Training Area. 

For the purpose of this month let’s define what we mean when talking about “Relationships” in Life Athletics. 

We’re calling any interaction you have with another person a relationship. 


You obviously have some that are more important to you than others. You have some that can be grouped together or fit into categories and we will look at as many as you want. 

How you are with other people and the response you get is what we’re looking at this month. 

Where are you now in your relationships with others? 

Where do you want to be? 

How can you get there? What do you need to do? 

We are social creatures. Language is the tool we developed to relate to each other and it’s how we interpret the world. 

How we relate to others says a lot about us and as Life Athletes this is kind of a big deal. 

This month we will be looking at how to make our relationships better, faster, stronger. 

Challenge: 
-Commit to looking at how you interact with others and creating the relationships you want in your life. 

Phase 3 Day 7: That's all folks! Help us help you!

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And here we are Life Athletes, reaching the end of Phase 3 and of the programming for the month. 

If you’ve gone through all of the steps you have everything you need to launch yourself at the life you want. 

Remember to keep track of the tools, resources and daily clicks as you go. Also, routinely note any blocks that come up as if they were hitches in a jump shot or an improper running gait. They don’t make you bad, they just don’t get you what you want. 

Use whatever will motivate you to move away from where you are and whatever will pull you forward.  


Keep everything in front of you and rely on your team. Have your team go through all through phases to make sure that they’re moving forward powerfully as well. 

Life Athletics is working on developing the website to be a powerful “System of Existence” tool that will assist you in programming your life. 

Another project in the pipeline is the Life Athletics podcast. We will be talking to people who excel in some area of life or are experts in at least one area to find out how they do what they do and how you can too. It will be about getting the most out of being a human being. 

Let us know who you’d like to hear from in the podcast and what kind of tools would serve you in the web site. Help us help you

Thanks and we’ll see you on the field!  Enjoy your life, enjoy the game! 

Phase 3 Day 6: Tools

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The whole point of this series is to have you on track and totally empowered to get the most out of being a human being. 

You have goals, you have a team and many other pieces that you’ll need in order to pull this off. 

Beyond this, you’re going to need tools. 

A tool is defined as a device or implement used to carry out a particular function. Let’s expand this definition to include behaviours, strategies and whatever else you need to use in order to get the job done. 


In order to build and maintain my mental and emotional fitness I sleep a certain number of hours a day and have an elaborate morning ritual designed to fit my needs. 

This is a tool that I use to train this aspect of myself.  Another tool I use is the concept that physiology triggers psychology. When you smile, it tells your body that you’re happy. When you walk around like a superhero, you start to feel like a super hero. It’s hard to feel down when you hold your body a certain way. Conversely if you want to feel down, slump your shoulders, frown and stare at your feet for a while. Ok, stop doing that, you’re a Life Athlete!

Your system of existence might is a tool and should be treated with care.  

In fact, all of your tools should be given the respect that you’d expect a surgeon to give to theirs. 

Being aware of what you use to get the results you desire is important as it will make things duplicatable. If there’s any mystery to how you get the results you want, what you did that worked... you’ll be playing a game of hit or miss. 

Many of us like to over complicate things by trying to find new ways to do the same things we’ve done successfully before. While most things can be improved in some way,  there’s something to be said for sticking with what works. The classics get to be called that for a reason. 

So, take a look at your tool kit, mark down what you use for what task and take note of any areas where you are missing tools... chances are, this is a weak spot for you. 

Also, it is a poor carpenter that blames his tools BUT it’s an even worse one who doesn’t see that the tools are there for the taking. Find the tools that work best for you and lost the rest. 

Challenge: 

-Look at the 7 training areas and identify key tools that you use in each. 

-Note any areas where you don’t have an effective tool and find one. 

Phase 3 Day 5: Team

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“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn

Not only is life a sport, it’s a team sport. You have to focus on your own personal performance for sure, but you also have to recognize that you’re not in it alone. 

Lots of people seem desperate to prove that they’re on their own and that they don’t need anyone but that’s not how we’re built. We process the world through language, the very tool that we use to connect to others. 

We are creatures that can’t survive for the first number of years without direct nurturing and support. We need others and it’s easier to admit it than to fight it. 

Once we admit that we need people and then looked at how shaped we are by them, it follows that we should be picky about who we surround ourselves with. 


Negative, emotionally upset / upsetting, and destructive people are obvious candidates for demotions. 

While this might sound cruel, it is necessary that you and your team are strong. There’s not a lot you can do from a place of weakness. Also, I’m not saying to eject people from your life, just to limit your exposure as much as possible to preserve your health and happiness. 

Many, many, many of us think that we’re doing people good by sticking around and trying to “fix” them but really, it just tends to make things worse. It is entirely possible that the people who seem negative, emotionally upset / upsetting and destructive are fantastic in another setting. If they’re hurting you, chances are they’re in the wrong place. Setting yourself free also sets them free. 

Eben Pagan makes a fantastic suggestion for the people who you can not let go of, but who might not be the healthiest to have around... interact with them where and when they’re at their best.

As far as your team goes... What kind of team would you like to have? Think about it, if this metaphor carries through and Life is a team Athletics event then who do you want on your side? Who are the top 5 people that will make up your inner circle? 

Remember that you get to choose these people... if you love your parents but they’re not the right people to have on your team... don’t have them on your team. Love them, hang out and make sure that you enjoy the relationships you have with them to the max! ... and then surround yourself with people who make you strong and the best version of you. 

One other concept I love that fits is the idea that when two people get together to solve a problem, it’s not two brains that are working together, it’s three. The theory states that a “third brain” is formed in the space... that combining people amplifies as opposed to simply adding. 

Your team is your inner circle, your mastermind group and ... when it comes down to it... they are you. 

Challenge:

  • Identify the characteristics that you want in your team. 
  • Make sure that you fit. 
  • Identify 5 people to officially add to the roster. 
  • let them know.
  • make sure that your schedule is set so that you are spending most of your time and attention interacting with these people. 

Phase 3 Day 4: Systems. 

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As you build a larger and more complex life you will get to a point where it no longer remains practical to keep everything in your head. Taking on new way’s of being, behaviors, habits... this stuff will take some time to integrate and can fade easily unless it’s put in a practical form, outside of your own brain. This is the stuff that people resist because it seems tedious and un-fun. It’s up to you to see it otherwise. 

Turn it into a game, see it as the key to the kingdom, do whatever you need to do, but unless you have something to keep things real and in existence... it won’t be real and it won’t exist. 

A system of existence will keep you accountable, remind you of the things you have going on and will keep things front of mind. 


Unless you have an assistant who will do these things for you, you must do it yourself. There are tools that can be used... which will you chose? 

Challenge:

-Choose a system that will allow you to keep all of your energy moving forward.